DO - 2 servers with Private IP - how to connect to each other over lan ?
as the title suggests, i've got 2 windows 2016 server
However,on PRIVATE IP it doesn't give a gateway, just LAN IP and Subnet
I've entered these into the adapter IPv4 settings, but i cannot connect to each other over lan
Do both of your Droplets belong to the same account & team?
If so, I would recommend opening a ticket with DigitialOcean to confirm the network settings you should be using for each of your Droplets to ensure you have them setup correctly for the private network.